Sunday, July 19, 2015

The Journey of Faith


This may seem like the same vacation that I already posted about, but there was two sides to this vacation and it didn't seem right to put them together.  




Our journey of faith actually started a few days before we left for our road trip. Dan and I and his parents visited Adam Ondi Ahman . Dan stood on "Preachers rock" where Joseph Smith had preached to a valley of followers and his sermon was heard for miles. 
We were able to see this beautiful area of Missouri where we believe the tribes of Israel will be gathered again before the second coming.
 It was peaceful and calming there, we saw two sweet little yellow butterflies flitting along together along the trail we walked. As we emerged from the woods and headed back to our car we passed an tree filled field and a woman was there with her violin playing "Nearer my God to thee" it was moving and just perfect!

We visited the lIberty MO jail and saw the conditions in which the prophet and his assistants were held for a ruling 6 months until a judge found them innocent of all charges and let them go. There was some horrible trials that came during that time in fact, the members of the church where chased out of their homes and up rooted to Nauvoo and as a leader he was literally in capable of helping them. Not to mention his own wife and children, Mother and family members.
The scriptures in D&C that were written during that time are invaluable when faced with a trial and I know he suffered through those horrible times in order to feel that pain and be able to be told that Savior had suffered more and since we are not above Him should we not expect to be exempt from trials, and the Lord intends our trials to be for our own good.





The saints worked hard and long to build the Temple (this is a recreation of the exact one) they finished and received the blessings of the temple just in time to be chased off and have the mob light the temple on fire. They watched it burn while they rode out of town with fraction of the things they owned and a hope for a place to settle and call their own. I think of how I take having a temple near me for granted after all they went through.

 We arrived in Nauvoo to a beautiful evening with a slight breeze and sat to watch a production that showed how the saints had built and lost the beautiful city of Nauvoo.
It was surreal to sit in the grove that Joseph often taught of his revelations, and preached in -and listen to a man who looked like him and repeated his words. It made me feel like I would have loved to sit at the prophets feet and learned.  I actually longed for the opportunity to be one of those pioneers even with all they went through. Their faith and determination, the love they had for one another, the local government  was a utopia in my eyes.




 We saw a small reading of letters that Joseph and his wife wrote each other while they were apart for his errands of the church, or while in jail. Their relationship was so tender and sweet and marred by a refiners fire like no other. Remembering he was man - with a large task and he went through so many challenges, was never paid for his work, gave away most of what he had and his wife served right along side of him. When he was killed her heart must have broke into a thousand pieces.






Jailed for treason after already being found innocent on that same charge earlier, Joseph and his brother and a few friends had actually gone and turned them selves in in order to get the record set straight. However Joseph knew he would never go home. He knew this was his last time being held. 
A militia that actually would like to see him dead were set as guards to protect him around the prison. So it is no wonder when a mob came- it wasn't hard to get through the guards.





The first shot made that chunk near the lock blow out. The second shot made the hole in the door and was what killed the Prophets brother Hyrum. Then the door flew open and many attempts were made in defense, but shortly into the fight two shots hit the prophet in the back at the same time that two more hit him in the chest.





The prophet fell through the window to his death.


 I stood on the ground in which his blood was spilt. He was a man, just a man with a calling to serve. He was a Prophet of God and he gave his life to stay true to his mission and his call from God.
The people who killed him thought that would end the church, it would end thousands of immigrants joining them and effecting their votes, city make up and desire to build a temple.
What they didn't understand was the church wasn't Joseph's. It's Jesus Christ church- established just as it was when Jesus Christ walked the earth and Christ is not dead so the work would go on, without Joseph even....


After his death the saints finished the Temple, and were chased out of Nauvoo - they went a ways (Nebraska) and stopped to prepare for winter. There were so many deaths at this "Winter quarters"
So many sacrifices - and yet those who lost loved ones and made it through to the Salt lake valley said it was worth it (reading from their journals) it took them another 40 years to build the SLC temple, but it was a never failing goal.
Now those graves stand in the shadow of an Omaha Nebraska Temple.
 The reason they were so willing to die and to live through such hardships was for the blessings of Eternal families, not just till death did them part. They were willing to do it all because they knew this was the gospel of Christ and how he would have us live and love our neighbors. They did it all to the glory of God and his supreme plan.
They did it so their descendants would have these same blessings and that they could know of the gospel of Christ.



 We are the product of their trials, and triumphs, we are the hope they envisioned. We are that posterity that they desired would have these opportunities and blessings. I hope and pray to live up to the desires of their hearts and be worthy of the their sacrifices , and to not take for granted the things they held so dear and protected for my family and for generations to come.


 Come, come, ye Saints, no toil nor labor fear; 
But with joy wend your way.
Though hard to you this journey may appear, 
Grace shall be as your day.
'Tis better far for us to strive
Our useless cares from us to drive; 
Do this, and joy your hearts will swell—
All is well! All is well! 

2. Why should we mourn or think our lot is hard?
'Tis not so; all is right.
Why should we think to earn a great reward
If we now shun the fight?
Gird up your loins; fresh courage take.
Our God will never us forsake; 
And soon we'll have this tale to tell—
All is well! All is well! 

3. We'll find the place which God for us prepared, 
Far away in the West, 
Where none shall come to hurt or make afraid; 
There the Saints will be blessed.
We'll make the air with music ring, 
Shout praises to our God and King; 
Above the rest these words we'll tell—
All is well! All is well! 

4. And should we die before our journey's through, 
Happy day! All is well! 
We then are free from toil and sorrow, too; 
With the just we shall dwell! 
But if our lives are spared again
To see the Saints their rest obtain, 
Oh, how we'll make this chorus swell—
All is well! All is well!




The Fun road trip vacation 2015

It was planned for 2014, but with the accident and spending the summer in NY it waited until this year, which is fine because Grandma and Grandpa Strode were able to come along and it was a great time to prep for Tori and Seth going on Trek next week!

A road trip... who doesn't love them?

First stop : Liberty Jail



 Still fresh for our trip we stopped and learned about the trials that occurred in Liberty Jail before the Mormons were driven from MO and into Nauvoo IL.



Stop #2: We stayed at the Hotel Nauvoo which has been an operating hotel since 1840 it was cute and central located so we could walk and see the town easily. 

We took wagon rides along the trails that pioneers rode - we complained about little rain- I think our ride was more enjoyable then theirs. 


 We went during the Nauvoo pageant which is a large stage production every night. One night is the Nauvoo pageant that shows how immigrants and converts came to Nauvoo and the joys and trials they passed through. Then the alternating nights was a British pageant that showed how missionaries from the early church had taught and met new members in England. The weather was beautiful and the shows were amazing!


All over the Old Nauvoo area were activities for people to be able to see how things were made and how life was lived in the old days. The kids got to play old fashioned games, taste bread from a wood fired oven, dress like pioneers, and so much more!

We spend 3 full days seeing shows, vignettes, demonstrations and learning about pioneers.

Stop #3    Then we drove 35 min. to Carthage IL. We stayed in the adorable old house B&B (Fritz Randolph house) . Darling old antiques and grand rooms . We stayed in what would have been the maids quarters back in the day that the home was a single family home.
We visited the carthage jail and ate yummy breakfasts fixed by the very sweet owners.




Door of the room Joseph and Hyrum were killed in


Our last day was a drive to Winter Quarters NE and see another visitors center that talked about the pioneers sending off 500 men to fight in the Mexican war and the rest of them  picking a spot to stay and prep for winter and to not go on until spring.



We played games to see if we could get all the important things onto our wagons. and we had picnics and tied to pull hand carts. Most of us decided it was a tougher life that we've ever had to live and that we are pretty soft! We gained a gratitude for those that went before us!

It was a great time, we all enjoyed the "She's touching me" and the giggles and late nights that come along with road trips.



Thursday, July 2, 2015

A new family member

Rewind to 1999 

We are sitting in an LDS chapel in Arizona visiting my family for Christmas, and there is a cute family sitting in front of us , a girl who was friends with my sister Katie, little twins and a couple of red head boys. One of which was good friends with my little brother Mikey.

Years and years later Mikey and that red head boy are great friends, lots of adventures and missions, college,  even went to the same school after their bachelors to get a law degree. Really good friends.

Now fast forward to 2013- 2014

 Logan would come home from college, and hang out at the house for the summer. Mikey would be around, some times that red head boy would come along. Sometimes Logan would go to institute and she would run into the boy, Mikey warned her "DO NOT LOOK AT MY FRIEND"

Strange because it was the last thing on her mind. She would make eyes at him when Mikey was looking just to get a rise out of Mikey. I saw her tease Mikey a few times and enjoyed it because he is such a tease himself.  The red head boy came to Tori's graduation party and Logan had a boyfriend over. He was a family friend that had been around for years and it was not unusual in anyway.

January 2015-

Logan was feeling better from her accident and wanted to leave our basement. She went back to school in AZ and because I was worried about her getting into a rental contract and it not working out so well, I asked Mikey if Logan could use his spare room for a semester. He agreed and was kind enough to host her for the semester.
He warned her again about dating his friend and she once again said (with rolled eyes) "OK... Mikey"
She dated a bit and the red head boy hung out at his best friends house a bit......maybe a bit more than normal.
Thats when Logan noticed he was actually cute and fun and they had a lot in common and she looked forward to him being over and enjoyed his company.
So with permission from Mikey... Yes, Uncle's give permission???. Dates began and then I received a text "I think Parker Stanley is great, and I have a huge crush on him"

June 2015

Logan has more surgery in NY, and come to KC to recoup. A secret plane ticket is purchased, a plan to send Logan and Tori on a limo tour of the Jazz sights of Kansas City to end at a famous fountain.

We smile - " Have a good time girls- enjoy the tour" and when the car is safely down the street we run around and clean for company. Set out clean towels, scrub the tub and put an extra chair at the dinning room table.

Dan and I drove to the airport and Dan ran into the baggage claim and do you know what he found, a tall red head man. We drove this man to the J.C. Nichols fountain in Kansas city in his suit and a large bouquet of flowers. He nervously stood and waited for the jazz tour to end at the fountain. He peered through the fountain shoots to see the two girls and their driver enjoying the view. Then they circled to his side. Logan said to Tori " Aww look at the guy with flowers" and Tori said " You don't recognize him?"

It's Parker....
(Huggs, kisses, giggles, bending down...)
"Logan Marie, will you marry me?"














Welcome to the family official Parker Stanley- since you've already been a member all this  time!