I have a good friend who reads my blog regularly and comments to me on how she enjoys it because its so up beat all the time and positive and happy. Well Marilee, you might want to skip this entry.
In the endless pursuit to figure out how many lickings you can take before you loose your mind, the U.S. Army has established to break Arlena Strode it is a deployment backed by a 1 year command, turning into another deployment that was both followed and preceded by 3 month TDY's, followed by an over seas assignment in a remote location ,immediately followed by yet another deployment (of which gets extended from 6 months to 12. We are currently at month 9)
When the first deployment started (not Dans first deployment, that was to Bosnia, but this rapid succession of insanity) I was still changing Paige's Diapers. She's in 5th grade now!
Countless sick children, band concerts, baseball game, dance recitals, weekends running like a nut with your shell loose, Surgery, endless house hold issues, car issues, parent teacher conference's, dinners made cleaned up, care packages sent and skyped in family prayers, balance the budget, drivers licenses,"stop hitting your brother", sitting in church as the only one with out an arm around your shoulder,birthday parties, high pressure callings, family trips- that do not include the Dad of the family, "clean your bed room before my head pops off my shoulders and spins around", washing machines busted, CA wants to know why we didn't file state tax in 2008, volunteering as every FRG, AFTB, and WTH, for every crazy COL.'s wife that comes along(all with a smile I might add), gymnastics meets, and practices,coaching issues,doctor appointments, Tricare poop, passports for 5 and pack out 100% alone, anniversaries,punishments and groundings, " I hate you Mom, I wish Dad was here", Dog, turtle, fish in the drain, registering vehicle that was over seas with no POA, Christmas alone, someone brought us an extra dog? Kid in a car accident, "your projects due tomorrow?" it's raining in our hall way,switch financial institutions,extended family "fun", "Whats for lunch?", did I mention I hate this stupid owl, nights alone, days alone, weeks, months, years..........